Romance novels often get a bad rap. Despite being one of the most popular and commercially successful genres (as in, earning $1.44 billion), romance is still sometimes looked down on as “fluff” or dismissed as formulaic and predictable.
But those who underestimate the genre might be missing out on some of the most emotionally resonant, compelling, and surprisingly complex stories out there. Let’s explore why the romance genre is often underestimated and how it might just surprise you when it’s done well.
Why exactly is the romance genre looked down on?
Perceived Simplicity
One of the main reasons some people look down their nose at romance is the perception that these books are simple, both in terms of plot and writing. Critics may see the genre as formulaic, with predictable story arcs (boy meets girl, boy loses girl, boy gets girl back) and feel-good endings that don’t challenge the reader.
But the idea that simplicity equals low quality is a misconception. The truth is, crafting a story that resonates emotionally, draws readers in, and leaves them satisfied is no easy feat—whether it’s a sweeping epic or a cozy romance.
Gender Bias
Let’s be honest: many view romance through a gendered lens. Because the genre is predominantly written by women for women, it’s sometimes dismissed as less serious or important than genres like literary fiction, science fiction, or thrillers, which traditionally have broader male readerships. (Is this really surprising?)
This bias can lead to an unfair devaluation of the genre, despite the fact that romance has just as much potential for depth, creativity, and impact as any other category of fiction.
“Guilty Pleasure” Stigma
Even among some readers who enjoy romance, there can be a sense of embarrassment or hesitation to openly admit it. Some will label romance novels as “guilty pleasures,” which suggests that they’re something to be enjoyed in secret rather than celebrated. This stigma can contribute to the broader underestimation of the genre, despite the fact that many readers turn to romance for comfort, escape, and joy.
The romance genre might just surprise you.
Emotional Depth
Romance novels excel at exploring human emotions in all their complexity. The best romance stories don’t just give you a love story; they delve into themes like vulnerability, trust, sacrifice, and self-discovery. A well-written romance can make you feel deeply for the characters, pulling you into their emotional journey and leaving you reflecting on your own relationships and experiences.
Diverse Representation
The romance genre has been at the forefront of increasing diversity in fiction. From LGBTQ+ love stories to romances featuring characters of different racial, cultural, and religious backgrounds, today’s romance authors are expanding the genre’s horizons and representing love in all its beautiful forms. For readers who crave diverse voices and experiences, romance can be an eye-opening and enriching experience.
Subverting Expectations
While romance novels often follow a recognizable structure, many contemporary romance authors are finding clever ways to subvert reader expectations and add fresh twists to familiar tropes. These books might play with narrative styles, surprise readers with unexpected plot developments, or explore unconventional relationships and dynamics.
The good, the bad, and the in-between
Like any genre, romance has its share of standout books and those that fall flat. Not every romance novel will be a reader’s cup of tea, and that’s okay.
It’s true that some books may rely too heavily on clichés or lack the character development needed to make the romance feel authentic. But that’s true for every genre. The trick is finding the right fit—whether you prefer lighthearted rom-coms, historical romances, or emotionally intense love stories.
It’s also worth noting that what resonates with one reader may not resonate with another. Romance, like any genre, is highly subjective, and personal tastes vary widely. One person’s favorite slow-burn romance might be another’s least favorite, and that’s part of what makes the genre so diverse and interesting. There’s something for everyone, and with so many subgenres and styles to explore, the chances of finding a romance novel that speaks to you are high.
The takeaway: Don’t underestimate romance
Romance novels deserve more respect than they often receive. When done well, they offer emotional depth, diverse representation, and powerful stories that can rival any other genre. Romance isn’t just about love—it’s about connection, growth, and the human experience. And while not every book in the genre will be a winner for every reader, that’s true of any genre. The key is to approach romance with an open mind and a willingness to let it surprise you.
So next time you’re looking for something new to read, consider giving romance a chance.
On that note, let me know what romance books you’ve read lately that you’d recommend.
Here’s some of my recent romance reviews:
- Half a Soul: Delightful
- A Dark and Drowning Tide: Magical and immersive
- When the Moon Hatched (Book 1): A plotless mess
- Love on the Brain: Basic, but fun
- Evocation (Book 1): A slow simmer
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2 responses to “An Underestimated Genre: Romance deserves respect, too”
Your review is fantastic! I loved how you broke down the different genres and stories—it was so detailed and insightful. It’s clear you have a deep understanding for the subject. Thank you for sharing such a well-crafted and thoughtful review!
Lol thanks. Let me know if you want to try a romance book soon